A Hot Day for a Scottish Wedding in Kilts!

Congratulations Bobby and James

As featured in Le Parisien Magazine

Bobby and James wedding portrait, designed by French Wedding Company at Chateau La Gauterie

Bobby and James had already booked the lovely Chateau La Gauterie when they approached me about planning their wedding.  Being based in Australia meant organising their wedding from a distance, but that didn’t deter Project Manager, James, from drawing up detailed site plans to share his vision of the day.  With guidance from us, a team of creative suppliers and styling from our design team, their 3-day celebration came to fruition.

Here are some of the highlights of their weekend and on what was a boiling hot day in July.


The ladies enjoyed fresh fruit and fought over the fan whilst having their hair and make-up done.







The guys found other ways to cool off…. Yes, the trunks say ‘Budgy Smuggler’ and the groomsmen had a pair each.  I can’t say whether they wore them under their kilts!







The colour scheme was blues and white and included thistles… the flower of Scotland, of course.


Guests were treated to slush puppies on arrival and who would have thought that water would be the tipple of the day!


During the drinks reception guests chilled out in various ways…


Styling was mainly in the small details, although the bespoke ceremony draping was a welcome addition for shade.



As night fell, the temperature cooled and everyone danced under the stars.







Despite the 32 degree heat, a great day was had by all…


Photos by: David Page Photography


To find out more about how French Wedding Company can help you plan, design and create your wedding day story contact us now.  








Venue Search Tips 1: Setting Your Venue Budget

Don’t let your venue choice mean compromising on your wedding day

If you are starting out on your wedding planning journey then it’s an exciting time, but, it can also be a confusing one… not least because most wedding venues in France do not offer an ‘all-in’ package. ‘GREAT!’ I hear you cry, ‘we can have our day, our way’, and yes, that is of part of the joy of a wedding in France.

But beware …

Before you get out your iPad and start searching for venues, have you considered what venues you can afford AFTER you have calculated your wedding day costs?

So often I hear…

I thought the venue would do that’


I didn’t realise that wasn’t included


The reality is that there is a huge choice of wedding venues in France to suit all tastes and budgets, if you know where to look for them, but the cost of hiring a venue can vary vastly from one venue to another.

The cost of your wedding day, however, generally varies little from venue to venue (assuming you are comparing apples with apples!).

So, to avoid disappointment and to get a fabulous wedding venue AND the wedding day of your dreams, follow these 5 steps.

  1. Fix Your Overall Budget
    Decide on a total figure that you both feel comfortable spending, taking into account any family contributions.
  2. Work Out What Your Ideal Day Will Cost
    Talk through your ‘ideal’ wedding day and research the average cost that each service required will be.  Don’t forget support services such as staff, delivery charges and equipment hire, for example. DON’T ASSUME ANYTHING!!!  This is perhaps one of the hardest areas of your budgeting as it will take time and research, but make the effort, take advice and you are setting yourself up for a lot less hassle and potential heartache.
  3.  Allow Contingency
    It may be impossible to know all costs before you know your venue or exactly which suppliers you are using.  Also, things often have a bad habit of coming up unexpectedly, so, add a contingency:  10% is usually good.
  4. Work Out Your Venue Budget
    Take your wedding day costs from your overall wedding budget and see what you come out with.  Don’t be too upset if your venue budget comes out less that you thought, you won’t be the first!  It is at this stage you can then add in any accommodation costs you are hoping to recoup from guests, as this will boost your venue hire spend.
  5. Find Your Venue
    Before despairing that you can’t afford anywhere or the venue of your dreams, do take a look around.  With over 8000 wedding venues in France there are sure to be some options for you.  If not, then this is when you need to decide where you might be happy to compromise.  Prioritise on-the-day services, identify where you might be prepared to shave some money off to increase your venue budget… and get expert help!

DON’T get yourself in a position where you fall in love with or even commit to a venue but can’t afford to hold the wedding day you had dreamed of.  You’ll end up resenting the fact that you had to squeeze other areas so tightly or spend the whole planning process and even on the day, stressing about it.

If it all feels a bit overwhelming, why not contact French Wedding Company about our Venue-Finding Service.  We know how to find a broad spectrum of venues, understand site logistics and their impacts on costs.  We also thrive on getting creative… thinking of different ways of doing things to achieve your dream wedding.  The service includes helping you to understand your options and set your wedding day budget.

Contact us about our Venue-Finding Service now and we’ll get you started on the right path.

Coming Next… Venue Search Tips 2: Search Pitfalls

Coming Soon… Venue Search Tips 3: Getting the most from your site visit

NEW **French Country Estate with fabulous views & lake**



The French Country Estate is the ideal wedding venue for a relaxed country, rustic or festival style wedding for up to 100+ guests.  Its organic and ‘green’ ethic may also be appealing to discerning couples.

It has flat lawns on 3 sides of the chateau and a large barn that will be available from 2019.



What we love….

We are delighted to be exclusive partners at this property.  The young owners are developing the estate in organic farming and are vibrant, aspirational and extremely hospitable – keen to offer you the very best of the region and venue.  They have a flexible approach and a whole host of additional activities that can be arranged exclusively for your guests and you, around the estate.   

The estate offers:

Weddings and Events

  • fantastic views to mountains and across the surrounding countryside
  • great flexibility in set-up and event spaces, both indoor and out
  • extensive flat lawns surrounding the house on 3 sides
  • large terraces suitable for outdoor dining
  • tree-lined avenue on arrival
  • second avenue of trees suitable for ceremony or shaded outdoor dining
  • interconnecting barns suitable for indoor receptions and events (bar, dinner, dancing, ceremony)
  • 4 hectare lake accessible for barbecues, picnics, etc.




House and Services

  • self-catering, accommodation for up to 16 on site
  • large, well laid out and presented communal spaces
  • pool with spectacular views
  • breakfasts and event meals can be provided for on-site residents
  • other activities such as clay pigeon shooting, hot air ballooning, colour therapy, reiki, massage



In the Area

  • nearest church – 5 mins
  • nearest airport – 1.5 hours
  • nearest overflow accommodation – 5 mins
  • nearest village with amenities – 5 mins


  • flexible arrival day
  • flexible length of stay (season dependent)

Contact us for more information

A Look Back at 2017 Wedding Venues

2017 was yet another year of variety for wedding venues including:

  • rustic country chateaux and elegant luxury chateaux
  • chateaux sleeping 40 guests and chateaux just for 10
  • wedding barns and courtyards

We revisited our exclusive partners at the Stunning Aristocratic Chateau and long-time friends at Chateau Malliac…

 Large Armagnac Chateau in Gers with ivy covered walls towers huge stone and oak beam receptions rooms, courtyard and park garden

Were delighted to return to Chateau de Saint Paul and Chateau de La Bourlie…

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And established new partners at Chateau La Gauterie.

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We travelled to new regions with Esther and Kevin who got married in the Vendée, and once again, helped couples plan weddings at their own, or at their parents’ homes in France.

Our new Venue Finding Service went from strength to strength with couples from across the globe engaging our services.  We helped them find their wedding venue in Paris, Provence, Bordeaux, the West Coast, the South and South West of France, as well as a beach wedding, and 3 of these wedding venues were booked from afar, without any visits.  From the wedding venues search service:

  • Total wedding venues found on initial searches 426
  • Total wedding venues presented to couples 112 

We are looking forward to carrying out more personalised venues searches in 2018 and sharing some of the amazing and hidden wedding venues that France has to offer.

For expert help on finding your wedding venue and making head or tail of costs, venue options and suitability, contact us here.





Aristocratic Chateau on Rocky Outcrop near Large Town




This beautiful Aristocratic Chateau sits atop a rocky outcrop overlooking the surrounding countryside, just 15 minutes from a large town.

Its large courtyard, raised pool and small vaulted basement make it a perfect venue for small and intimate weddings for up to 100 guests.



What we love…

We have worked in exclusive partnership with the Aristocratic Chateau for several years and couples and their guests never cease to be wowed by their first sighting of the chateau sitting high above them on the approach road.  We really love the elegance of both the interior and exterior and the pool that sits way above the chateau.

If you are looking for original period charm and elegant architecture as the backdrop to your wedding, then look no further.

Wedding and Events

  • Large courtyard ideal for ceremony, receptions (meals also possible for small numbers)
  • Large gravelled area for dining and dancing under marquee or tent
  • Pool higher up the hill with terrace suitable for drinks receptions, post wedding barbecues
  • Series of vaulted, interconnecting, basement rooms making great dancing room or atmospheric dining room for small numbers
  • Varied grounds including possibility of woodland wedding ceremony
  • Large meadow – a great space for pre-and post wedding day get-together and activities


House and Services

  • 10 bedrooms
  • Sleeps up to 20
  • Heated pool
  • Daily maid service
  • Meals can be provided for onsite guests (optional)


The Area

  • Nearest church – walking distance
  • Nearest village with amenities – 10 mins
  • Nearest large town – 15 mins
  • Nearest international airport – 10 mins
  • Nearest overflow accommodation – walking distance / 5 mins


  • Available all year
  • Flexible arrival date and length of stay (excluding mid June – Mid September – Saturdays only)
  • Flexible length of stay (excluding mid June- mid September – min 7 nights)

Contact us for more information






Candice and Carl Part Two – Wedding Planning

In the second part of this 3 part series, Candice and Carl continue to tell, in their own words, how, having found their venue, French Wedding Company managed their wedding planning process.


“Laura helped us make the arrangements with the venue owners and with the translation of the contracts. It was at this point it dawned on us that although both of us could parle un petit peu de francais, we would definitely need some help with the rest of the organisation, as how would we cope with contract negotiations and finding suppliers in the French countryside from the UK? We always thought of a wedding planner as indulgent and reserved for celebrities and those with money. We were pleasantly surprised by the cost of having Laura as wedding planner, which made our decision easy and in retrospect I am not sure how we would have got everything done without her.

From the point that we decided to use French Wedding Company as our wedding planners things became so much easier.  Laura met with us in the UK before we went out for a 2nd visit to France to understand the unique and personal twists we wanted to add to our day, building up a wedding portfolio of things we liked from other weddings, magazines and our own ideas, guiding us through the practicalities and keeping us on track when our focus got side-tracked on minute details.

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French Wedding Company Styling Moodboard


The second trip to France allowed us to re-visit the venue and work with Laura on the walk through of the day. By this point Laura had already helped us to find a celebrant to do the ceremony and sourced a caterer, florist and hairdresser for us to meet with during our visit. We met with all the suppliers and Candice had a run through of hair and make-up before the all-important big day. The food tasting afternoon with our amazing caterer Fabrice, left us no doubt as to who would cater our event and also fuller than one of his delicious crème patisserie profiteroles. My only regret was not to get a taxi there to sample more of the splendid wine that accompanied the food!

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Tasting with Chef Fabrice
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Sample canapes and a glass of sparkly
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Stuffed confit d’aubergine starter
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Scallops and with cured bacon













With four months to go Laura helped us finalise the details with our suppliers; the florist, the celebrant, waiting staff, the Music (PA and Speakers), decorations and catering and tableware. Planning a wedding from another country can make you feel a bit isolated and out of the loop, but it really helped to have a single contact who knew what you wanted and who knew how things work in France, working behind the scenes when things sometimes seemed to be going slower than we expected, or prompting us when we needed to make decisions and get things booked.

The online planning tool used by French Wedding Company helped us keep track of what we had to do, decisions to make and view options Laura and the team had sourced for us, and track spending against our budget. It really helped that everything was in one place.”

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Supplier meetings with Laura at French Wedding Company

Read Part One – Venue Search

Part Three – Our Wedding Day, follows shortly

See their wedding story book – to follow at the end of their blog series

Candice and Carl, Part 1 – Venue Search

Read about Candice and Carl’s wedding planning journey in the first of this 3 part series – written in their own words.

“We knew we wanted something different for our wedding, we had always loved France; the food, the wine, its beauty, warmth and memories of holidays on the South coast. The idea of making our special day somewhere we would always remember, a unique day just for us, to share with our family and friends, a perfect day….

Wedding in France

Our first thought was that we could get married in a French church and find a venue for the reception, but unfortunately you have to have lived in France for over a month to do that and as much as we would have loved to stay in the beautiful sunny countryside of France, it wasn’t possible. We decided to have a blessing and our reception in France instead. We searched online for venues and found a number of agencies that could help us to find our dream location. Our initial thought was to use a venue finding service to get the ball rolling and then we would organise the rest ourselves. How hard could it be?

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We chose to use the French Wedding Company for this as they had a range of venues to suit our budget and hand-picked 12 options for us to narrow our search. We chose to view six and spent an amazing weekend touring the Dordogne countryside and looking at venues. We were met at each one by Laura and her team to walk the venues and give us suggestions about what we could do at each one, which helped us to visualise what our day would look like and the general flow of the day.

Our chosen venue was the first place we visited, although it was a hard choice between the options available. The sun shone on the hilltop Chapel of St Paul’s next to the tastefully renovated stonework gites. The idea that we could have our ceremony in a chapel and have our reception within the gardens overlooking the fields and lake, with accommodation for our closest friends and family was more than we hoped for. St Paul’s was beautiful and we had found our venue.”

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Photos by Peter Antoine Photography

It takes us just 7-10 days to turn around a wedding venue search.  For Candice and Carl we sourced approx 30 possible venues, contacted 20 who met their exact requirements, proposed 12 that were the nearest match, available and within budget.  Contact us to get your venue search under way.

Read Part Two – Wedding Planning (to follow shortly)

Read Part Three – Our Wedding Day (to follow shortly)

See their wedding storybook, showing how we brought their wedding day to fruition (to follow shortly).

Destination Wedding in France – 5 Things You Should Know

Thinking about a wedding in France?  Great choice!

There are a few things however, that when considered in advance, can set you on the right path to a unique and successful wedding.

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With many couples opting for venues in the wonderful French countryside you may find the way of doing business somewhat different to the 24/7, online speed of big city living.  Combine that with a culture of frank discussion, fixed service criteria, and ‘not questioning the expert’ and it can be easy to start off on the wrong foot and find supplier negotiations quite frustrating.  Getting support and advice for your negotiations will make it much easier and quicker.

They speak French!

Yes, I am stating the obvious… but having knowledge of the French language can transform how you plan your wedding. When you are not tied to using English speaking suppliers, an even more diverse world of venues and extremely skilled suppliers are there for you, to help you create a truly unique day.

Marriage is only legal at the town hall

Even the French must marry at the local mayor’s office before they can marry in church. It is pretty much the same as going to your local registry office, before having a blessing in France.  If you meet the criteria for a legal wedding in France, the paperwork can be a bit laborious, but when you know how, it can be quite easy to arrange.  Translation will cost though, so do take that into consideration in your budget.

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It costs more than you think

One of the most common mistakes couples make is underestimating the cost of their wedding day. Setting a budget is a good starting point, but is it realistic for the day you are hoping to achieve?  France offers great value but this is not the same as it being cheaper.  If you are hoping to avoid a packaged wedding in favour of having something more bespoke, be very sure that you have considered all the behind the scenes costs.  This may vary from venue to venue so take advice from those in the know.  It may cost you, but what you could save in time, money and stress, will make for much more enjoyable wedding planning.

It’s a big and diverse country

There is a reason that many French don’t go further than their own backyard for their holidays… France is a wonderfully diverse country, rich in culture, landscapes and architecture. Each region has a very distinct character and there is one to reflect every couple.  They also have their own pros and cons, be it weather, costs or access.  Research your region well or take advice before looking for your venue, to help narrow down the areas that will best suit you.

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The team at French Wedding Company have expertise in all these areas.  We are all bi-lingual, have an extensive database of quality, knowledgeable and flexible, English and French suppliers as well as access to a broad range of venues.  We are based in France so know the regions and culture, understand the legalities and business etiquette.  Our years of experience mean we also know what it costs and how to get the best value from your budget.

To get help and guidance finding your venue and planning your day, your way, tell us about your aspirations for your wedding here.

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2016: A Year of Contrasts

As this is my first blog I have brought together an overview of 2016, to show the diverse range of weddings we do in a year. Details of individual weddings will be posted either as blogs or in more depth in our storybooks that will follow soon. So let’s take a look back.

2016 was a year of contrasts that started with a welcome dinner that had a French bistro feel and ended with a rustic wedding in a beautiful stone barn.

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In between, styles included classic and elegant, rustic, neon and vintage.

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wedding year in review

Couples came from across the globe, including Norway, Denmark, Australia, Canada, India and the UK. The smallest wedding was just 10 guests and wedding blessings were held on a boat, in church and at the venues.

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Wedding reception venues included a Bordeaux vineyard, a Michelin starred restaurant, a hunting estate, a couple’s holiday home and an historic château.

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There was a traditional Danish wedding cake, gastronomic meals, macaroon towers, afternoon teas and picnics. Accordionists, giant garden games, a comedian and even a jockey race… entertained guests.

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French Wedding Company are proud to have helped to bring these dreams to fruition and we look forward to another year of celebration in 2017. Tell us your wedding day dream and ideal setting and together we will make it happen.

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